LLL (Little Life Lesson) II
Something that is so important to remember, but I seem to FORGET everyday, is that IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. Such an easy concept, yet so hard for me to grasp!
I will give you a personal life example:
I am absolutely terrified of the idea of driving a car by myself. I have my license and got 100% on the driver test, but if I have the option (which I always do) I choose not to drive! This is just who I am and I am sure one day I will eventually get a car and drive, but now my mom is my personal chauffeur. Now this doesn't usually bug me, but what DOES bug me is other people! Everyday I get comments like, "when are you going to drive?" "did your mom take you again?" or "You have to learn how to drive on your own!" Not to mention almost all my friends have cars and can drive.
Comments like this really get to me because I really want to be able to drive by myself; like it would be SO fun to pick up my best friend and just drive around or go somewhere. But I get this knot in my stomach every time I take the wheel and my body starts to shake.
So I have to tell myself everyday, that little things like this are not a race, and it doesn't matter what people think of you, because it's just YOU. They are still going to like you for who you are, and if they don't want to do things with you because of a little thing, like you don't drive, then they have no business being in your life anyways.
This really goes for anything in life; if you don't have a problem with it, then why should anyone else?? Be your own SELF. Be HAPPY. and I guarantee you will inspire others. And isn't that the goal?: To be so happy that your happiness spreads and sticks to others. That's my goal at least!
I'm Sarah and that's how i see it.
xoxo

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